Commons Sense

House of Commons · Westminster Hall

Relationship Education in Schools

01 April 2025 · 14 other contributors · 10,228 words

Opened by Helen Maguire Lib Dem Epsom and Ewell

Responding minister: Catherine McKinnell

Summarised by AI from the official record, so it can contain mistakes.

At a glance

Helen Maguire raised concerns about relationship education in schools in Westminster Hall. A government minister responded.

Key points

  • Teachers witness aggressive misogyny in 41% of cases.
  • Over half of teachers see pupils advocate sexual violence.
  • 60% of students are unaware of signs of healthy relationships.

Key requests to Government

The debate calls for urgent adaptation in relationship education to counter inappropriate ideas and protect women and girls from violence, focusing on prevention through education and addressing the role of social media in shaping perceptions.

How the debate unfolded

MPs spoke in turn to share their views and ask questions. Here's what each person said.

Opened the debate

Helen Maguire Lib Dem Epsom and Ewell

The relationship education that young people receive does not address contemporary issues, with 41% of teachers witnessing aggressive misogyny, 51% seeing pupils advocate sexual violence, and only 43% of students feeling represented by existing education. Online sources and pornography are primary information sources for many young people, with 60% unaware of signs of healthy or unhealthy relationships.

Other contributors (14)
  • Alex Brewer LD North East Hampshire

    Reported troubling behavioural issues from boys in schools and highlighted the need for a curriculum that promotes healthy masculinity and respect.

  • Alistair Strathern Lab Hitchin

    Congratulated Helen Maguire on securing the debate.

  • Anna Dixon Lab Shipley

    Highlighted the importance of educating children on prevention, signs of unhealthy relationships, and what a healthy relationship looks like, referencing West Yorkshire’s Pol-Ed programme. Parents of LGBTQ+ children are concerned that the 2024 guidance is creating a hostile environment and preventing conversations about trans and non-binary children.

  • Bell Ribeiro-Addy Lab Clapham and Brixton Hill

    Raises concerns about the quality and adequacy of relationship and sex education in UK schools, noting that only 50% of students rated their RSE classes as 'good' or 'very good'. Emphasises the importance of well-trained teachers delivering age-appropriate content to combat toxic ideologies.

  • Carla Lockhart DUP Upper Bann

    Advocated for the RSHE regulations to be Cass-compliant, suggesting schools should not teach about gender identity and should uphold school ethos.

  • Jim Shannon DUP Strangford

    Offers a parental perspective, commending the debate but emphasizing that while they are not in opposition to other views, there is a need for clear guidance on delivering RSHE effectively and responsibly.

  • Joe Morris Lab Rotherham

    The hon. Member for Hexham highlights the epidemic of gender-based violence and peer-on-peer abuse cases in schools, calling for better safeguarding measures and changes to the curriculum to counter exposure to toxic content online. Pleased with progress on specialist rape teams but noted cultural issues in handling domestic abuse.

  • Leigh Ingham Lab Stafford

    Emphasised urgent need for robust RSHE lessons given 60% of girls asked for nude pictures in 2022, citing lack of safety in schools.

  • Maya Ellis Lab Ribble Valley

    Discussed the importance of embedding healthy relationships early on, focusing on upstream prevention and supporting parents as their children receive relationship guidance in school.

  • Munira Wilson LD Twickenham

    Stressed the importance of developing safe relationships through education, highlighting statistics on online harm experienced by girls and boys. Emphasised the need for proper funding, training, and support for schools to deliver high-quality RSHE.

  • Rebecca Paul Con Reigate

    Discussed the importance of relationship education and its role in addressing misogyny, online risks for young people, and the need to balance transparency with parents while ensuring political impartiality. Raised concerns about the teaching of factually incorrect content regarding gender identity.

  • Rebecca Smith Con South West Devon

    Asked when the Government would respond to draft guidance on relationship education and highlighted inconsistencies in delivery across schools.

  • Tulip Siddiq Lab Hampstead and Highgate

    Asked about young people’s access to social media and supporting teachers banning smartphones and social media in schools.

  • Wera Hobhouse LD Bath

    Called for comprehensive relationship education to prevent violence, highlighting the need for inclusivity and teacher preparation.

Government Response

Catherine McKinnell

The Minister for School Standards

The Government will publish revised statutory guidance for relationship, sex and health education as soon as possible this year, focusing on keeping children's wellbeing at its heart. The guidance aims to address the challenges posed by social media, pornography, and online misogyny while promoting positive attitudes towards equality and addressing harmful behaviour.

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