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Children and Bereavement
02 December 2024
Lead MP
Kevin Bonavia
Stevenage
Lab
Responding Minister
Catherine McKinnell
Tags
NHSEducation
Word Count: 12245
Other Contributors: 7
At a Glance
Kevin Bonavia raised concerns about children and bereavement in Westminster Hall. A government minister responded.
Key Requests to Government:
The lead MP asked the government what legislation would be needed to allow registrars to collect data on the number of bereaved children at the point of registering a death. He also inquired about support and training for registrars to direct families towards charities and bodies that can help. Additionally, he questioned the latest guidance following a recent curriculum review and whether bereavement education could be included.
How the Debate Unfolded
MPs spoke in turn to share their views and ask questions. Here's what each person said:
Lead Contributor
The lead MP highlighted the lack of data on bereaved children in the UK, noting that without knowing the true scale of childhood bereavement, services are unable to offer proactive support. He cited a case where Mark Lemon experienced the murder of his father at age 12 and received no help until his twenties. The MP also stressed the importance of adding content on death, dying, and bereavement to the national curriculum to prepare children for life as adults.
Caroline Voaden
Lib Dem
South Devon
Mrs Voaden shared her personal experience of raising children after the loss of a parent to cancer and highlighted the ongoing challenges faced by bereaved families. She noted that more than 46,000 children in the UK annually face parental death, emphasizing the need for national data collection and school education about bereavement. Caroline Voaden called for extending bereavement support payments, noting that her husband's national insurance contributions should entitle her to such support. She argued that continued financial assistance is crucial for a parent's mental stability and the well-being of their children.
Christine Jardine
Lib Dem
Edinburgh West
I concur exactly with everything the hon. Member has said, as this is a cause close to my heart. I have a private Member's Bill on this very subject due to be considered in July. Christine Jardine emphasised the importance of a register for bereaved children, highlighting that organisations like Winston's Wish are unaware how to reach affected children. She noted the need for support networks accessible beyond school hours and stressed the economic benefits of providing early assistance.
Munira Wilson
Lib Dem
Twickenham
Pays tribute to other MPs and campaigners for raising awareness on children's bereavement. Estimates that a child loses a parent every 20 minutes in the UK, highlighting the need for more data collection and support services. Advocates for a national register of bereaved children and mandatory school bereavement policies. Emphasises the importance of mental health support, community hubs, and financial assistance such as bereavement support payments to help families cope with loss.
Neil O'Brien
Con
Harborough, Oadby and Wigston
Neil O'Brien paid tribute to organisations like Winston's Wish for supporting bereaved children. He highlighted personal examples of individuals who have overcome bereavement and noted the positive changes in mental health support for young people since 2017, including grants for senior mental health leads and the roll-out of mental health support teams. O'Brien also emphasised the need for a joined-up approach to data and supported the private Member's Bill by Christine Jardine to create a unique child identifier.
Sojan Joseph
Lab
Ashford
I worked as a mental health nurse and saw many people struggle with their mental health due to traumatic experiences, including family bereavements from years ago. Not addressing these episodes at a younger age can lead to long-term damage.
Stella Creasy
Lab Co-op
Walthamstow
Stella Creasy highlighted the lack of support for children who have lost a parent to murder or terminal illness, stressing that counselling is often not provided as part of routine care. She mentioned cases where families had been unable to access necessary services due to gaps in eligibility criteria, such as immigration status issues affecting children's rights and financial support after losing both parents.
Stuart Anderson
Con
South Shropshire
On that point, I want to give credit to my constituent John Adams for not letting the death of his mother hold him back in life. He was determined to see change and should be championed for all the work he is doing. I pay tribute to John Adams, who is leading the work on adding death, dying and bereavement to the national curriculum. He has over 1,900 signatures supporting this cause in South Shropshire. I lost my dad at eight and was shot at 17; dealing with children's mental health earlier can prevent long-term issues.
Government Response
Catherine McKinnell
Government Response
I thank the hon. Member for Stevenage (Kevin Bonavia) for introducing this timely debate on an incredibly important subject in National Grief Awareness Week. It really is an honour to respond to my first Petitions Committee debate, a Committee I formerly chaired, from the position of a Government Minister with responsibility for issues that the petition raises... Bereavement touches everyone, but its impact is unique to everyone. It cannot be avoided—it should not be. It is crucial that those affected by bereavement receive the support that they need throughout their period of bereavement... Government also have a clear role to play and are committed to improving the support that all young children should receive in a variety of difficult and challenging circumstances that they may face... The Department for Education provides a list of resources for schools on supporting mental health and wellbeing. That includes support from the Childhood Bereavement Network and Hope Again, and resources hosted on the website of Mentally Healthy Schools for mental health leads, which will include supporting children dealing with loss and bereavement where that is needed... Government are committed to supporting families through the most difficult times. Family hubs do great work, helping families across vital services to improve the health education and wellbeing of children, young people and their families... The cross-Government bereavement group is looking at how to better improve access to support, as well as options around improving data collection. We are considering whether a legislative solution is the right approach, ensuring that there is an evidence base that it is the best way to support children and families and that it would not have any unintended consequences... I again thank my hon. Friend the Member for Stevenage for bringing forward this matter, and I thank all those who have contributed to this debate.
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